Setting the tone and spirit of the celebration, music during the ceremony should be uplifting and heart-warming, while at the reception elegant live sounds or pleasant dance tunes take care of the entertainment.

The Ceremony

The selection of music and order of events should be thoroughly discussed with the marriage officer, organist and/or musicians before the event. This should be done quite early in the preparations, as the musicians may have to find sheet music if there are any special requests, and the hymns will have to be printed in the service sheets - something which should be done at the same time as the invitations. If an organist is not being used, recorded music in a symphonic style may be played from a good sound system

A formal church wedding lends itself to sacred, classical selections, which can be played while guests are being seated and during the signing of the register. While you don't necessarily have to play The Wedding March while walking down the aisle, make sure that the music will last at least until you get to the altar! There are usually two hymns sung during the course of the service, followed by an exit piece for the bridal couple in the form of a march. Try to choose hymns that your guests will be able to recognise and sing along to. Families with Scottish connections may choose to have a piper playing outside the church door to as the couple emerge.

For ceremonies held in private homes and gardens or at function venues, the music must be chosen to suit the setting. A small group such as a string quartet or harp-and-flute duo can create a very special atmosphere.